Celebrate a Life
The holiday season is a time for sharing memories of family and friends who are no longer with us. Join us in celebrating a life.
Dedicate a Star
Since 1985, Celebrate a Life has provided a unique opportunity for people to remember their loved ones. Each year hundreds of tributes are hung on our festive tree. This year, stop by the 4th Floor of Victoria Hospice from December 1 – 23 to hang a star in honour of a friend or loved one you have lost. You can also request a star be mailed to you by calling 250-519-1744 or dedicate a star online.
Stars in Memory
Click on stars to read recent tributes.
My Tribute To:
Bob Embury
My Message:
I miss you every day but I am comforted by the fact you are no longer in pain. Rest in peace
From:
Elizabeth Ilka
My Tribute To:
Florida Laforest
My Message:
Mom, There hasn’t been a day since you passed that I haven’t wanted to pick up the phone to ask you about something. Last month I was asked if I had your Molasses Cookie recipe. The one you made for pure lunch boxes. Anyhow, Hilda had the complete one which been shared with all the women in the family. Most make them at Christmas time. Christmas Day is two days away. First one without you. You were in Hospice. I miss you and love you forever. ❤️
From:
Anne laforest
My Tribute To:
Melanie Jane Clements
My Message:
You are forever in my heart. “Blow in my ear” as you said you would. I know that you are warm in the hands of Our Lord! I Am Not Asleep My eyes still shine, tho’ you can’t see them. Even tho’ your hearts bleed sorrow, Know that Glory waits out here. While your sad souls sing. I dance with the stars tonight, For I am not asleep.
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My Tribute To:
Hazel June Halpin
My Message:
Mom died at Hospice on June 6th, 2022. at 91 years young. She was a shining star. A wonderful mother, friend and Grandmother. MAy she rest in peace and Perpetual always light shine upon her. We love you Mom. JAckie
From:
Jacqueline Ray
My Tribute To:
Lee Humble
My Message:
I’ll never stop loving you. I miss you so much.
From:
Lavona
My Tribute To:
Tara Ross
My Message:
In loving memory of my Wife.
From:
Mike Ross
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Grief and the Holidays
For many people, the holidays can be the most difficult time of the year. Memories of past celebrations with family members or friends who are no longer here can magnify feelings of loss, and you may feel unsure about how—or even if—to celebrate this year.
Grief has a timing of its own, sometimes appearing – or disappearing – when we least expect it. If you experience this ebb and flow of feelings – even years after your loved one died – understand that it is common and a normal aspect of the grieving process.
Tips for Coping with Grief Over the Holidays
- Decide how you want to spend the holiday.
Allow yourself to think about what you most need and want to do. It’s OK if you want to change things completely, just a little, or not at all.
- Plan your activities in advance.
Before the holiday season is in full swing, create a plan that can be adjusted according to your needs. Let people who are important to you know what your plans are and if you are open to invitations.
- Expect things to be different.
Holidays are often spent with the people we are closest to and you are missing someone important. You may be feeling down and not up to your usual activities. However, you may also enjoy seeing people and participating in some events.
- Take time to care for yourself.
Allow yourself to feel whatever you feel and to spend time alone or with others as needed. Take time out for rest and physical activity and avoid over-indulging in food and/or alcohol.
- Be flexible about holiday traditions.
Without the person you’ve lost, you may not be able to do all the holiday things you’d normally do. Consider reducing or foregoing activities that aren’t essential, and asking for help with anything you’d like to continue.
- Give to others.
Sometimes the sadness and loneliness of grief during the holidays can be lightened a little by caring for others. Consider hosting a pre- or post-holiday gathering for friends and family or perhaps volunteering at a local shelter or charity.
- Do something to remember your loved one.
You may want to continue a favourite tradition or start something new. Perhaps an annual walk in a special place, or creating a special ornament or decoration, or even making a holiday food item that your loved one particularly enjoyed.
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